No matter how good you are at heart,
if you deal with a person with a prejudiced mind, nothing can be done to improve the relationship between you and them. If a person has a particular notion in their mind about you, they will cling to that notion even if the reality is far from it and it will definitely affect how they evolve to be your friends or colleagues or partner. A prejudiced mind will not accept the truth about your personality even if it stares them in their faces.
What can be done for this you ask?
Well there is nothing much to do. If you aren’t that close to the person, stop trying to be. If in better times they realise about their misconception, they might even make the first move. But you must not create prejudice in your own mind in this process as it will worsen matters even more.
But if you are really close to the said person, ask yourself just one question, do you hold equal importance in their life as they hold in yours? If yes, just talk to them, trust me it works!
And if the answer is no, you need to give them some space and let them decide how much importance you hold in their life.
Our mindset towards a particular person matters a lot. This is not an ideal world and so not everyone has a fair judgement. What they think of us and what we think of them can make or break the entire relationship between people.
The Quill 